Party Plan: Planning a Family Reunion

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With all the extra time you are probably having at home now and the thinking you may be doing about family you can’t go see right now, it’s a great time for planning a family reunion. Take the time to envision the kind of event you want to have and set up a plan that you can share with other family members . Use your vision to guide you in selecting the date, time, and place, and to identify any potential problems.

Most reunions take place during the summer. That time of year is usually best because of favorable weather, children being out of school, and folks taking time off for vacation.

However, if you decide to schedule the reunion to correspond to a special event, such as a 50th wedding anniversary, you need to keep the following issues in mind:

  •        If you choose not to have your reunion in the summer, try to schedule it close to a three-day weekend or during spring break. I you decide on a spring-break date, be sure to check with all the families who have kids in school because spring breaks can vary.
  •      If you schedule a reunion in mid-October, family members with school children probably won’t be able to attend.
  •    If you schedule a reunion in the winter, try not to schedule anything too close to major holidays, such as Christmas or Hanukkah. These are busy times of the year for most people, and their priorities may be elsewhere. 

Use common sense to determine the duration of the reunion.One-day reunions are the easiest to plan and are the norm for families who live within driving distance of each other. These are usually simple affairs, such as a picnic at the park or a backyard barbecue. However, one-day reunions can seem like a waste to folks traveling across the country to get there. Many family members would not want to pay for plane tickets, deal with airports, rent a car to attend a one-day picnic, and pay for an overnight hotel stay.  If your family is coming from far and wide, consider holding a weekend reunion that lasts two days.

Multiple-day reunions are the most enjoyable and memorable type of reunions. Spending two or more days with relatives that you rarely see is a treat! Multiple-day reunions do take more planning, of course. However, you must consider the cost of several nights in a hotel, and you should keep everyone occupied for more than one afternoon.

For example, you may want to consider the following itinerary:

  •   Hosting a hospitality night for folks on Friday evening with snacks and drinks or a light supper.
  •  Holding the main reunion event (such as a dinner or a picnic) on Saturday.
  • Having a casual, anything-goes day on Sunday.

When planning the date for your reunion, choose at least three possible dates that are a few weeks apart. After selecting a few potential dates, get some feedback from the rest of the family by sending a survey. Mail or email a survey to everyone on your guest list to find out which of the choices works best for each member of the family. Doing so helps avoid potential problems later — mainly, the lack of attendees.

In addition to asking for basic information — such as the number of people attending and their preferred dates — you should also ask the following questions:

  •    What types of foods do they suggest?
  •  What types of games and activities do they want?
  •  Do they want to help plan the reunion?
  •  Do they prefer a one-day or multiple-day reunion?

You’ll get a wide range of answers to your survey. Choose the ones that have a majority following. Sometimes, this doesn’t include your top choice, so be flexible. The goal is to make sure that as many people as possible can get together and enjoy themselves, including you.

When you decide on a date, stick to it. Don’t change the date to accommodate anyone, because the new date will inconvenience several others who have already made arrangements.

Most small family reunions tend to take place in the backyard of the family homestead or in a nearby park. Larger reunions tend to take place in rented halls, reserved park areas, and hotel facilities.

In fact, many factors go into determining your reunion location. For example:

  •  The number of people planning to attend and where they’re traveling from
  • The date and time of day of the reunion
  •  Your reunion theme
  •  How early you start searching for a location
  •  Types of activities
  •   Your budget

 Finding a venue — or a place to hold your reunion — is simple. You go online and checking out venues, find out about fees, and visit the sites.

Before you decide on a reunion location, take a good look at the place. Ask for the grand tour and take notes. Keep track of all the information you gather on your location tours. Check out the facilities thoroughly.

  • Is everything clean, or does it smell fresh?
  • Is there a kitchen that you can use, and does the facility supply small appliances, such as coffee makers? Is there a fee for using these appliances?
  • Where are the restrooms?
  • Does the site have any recreational facilities?
  • Is there access for disabled folks?
  • Does the site allow for the serving of alcohol?
  • What about insurance?
  • Is adequate parking available? 

Reserving a spot at any public place, whether it’s a park, campground, or hall, requires reservations up to a year in advance — or sometimes longer, if the spot is popular. No matter what site you choose, be sure to ask about the reservation requirements. Start with the following questions:

  •   How far in advance do I need to make reservations?
  •  What is the fee?
  •  Do you require a security deposit? How much is it?
  •  What is your cancellation policy?

Always start your planning early! Eighteen months is the minimum for a large reunion; a year in advance is average. But if you’re a procrastinator, give yourself at least six months for planning and reserving the location. If you wait any longer than that, you’re pushing the limits.

You want to have a variety of activities at your reunion so folks can get to know new faces as well as mingle with people they haven’t seen in years. When selecting a location, check to see what types of activities are available because you may want to add them to your activities list. For example, some indoor facilities offer swimming pools, shuffleboard areas, volleyball courts, billiards, and other nifty activities.

Likewise, outdoor sites may feature tennis and basketball courts or areas for rousing games of softball or touch football. Beachside reunions can easily accommodate sandcastle contests, beach volleyball, and other beach games.

If you or a family member has a backyard with a swimming pool, consider having a pool-party reunion. Make sure that the backyard can accommodate the crowd. Most pools (except the blow-up, kiddie variety) take up a lot of space, leaving little room for people and barbecue equipment.

If you select a beachside location or a site with a pool, appoint a lifeguard to ensure everyone’s safety. Family members will be busy reuniting and can be distracted very easily when they are supposed to be watching whoever is in the water.

The bottom line is that if you plan to have lots of activities for everyone, you can select just about any spot for your reunion. But if your list of activities is a little slim, be sure to choose a site that offers a wide range of things to do.

f you can get all this planning done early, it will make putting on such an event so much easier!


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